If two love in a long time is not in the morning and evening!!!!!! The two separated friends, the understanding of this sentence should be quite profound! Have a deeper feeling than others! I am one of these dung seeds, with the help of experience this platform to share with you my personal feelings.
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How to master the frequency of playing is a fixed time to play N every day, or with the temperament, think of playing, can not remember even if, according to so many years of experience and personal opinion, that is, can not be fixed time, can not follow the temperament. If every day at a fixed time, a special situation to the point, can not play, the other party will be crazy. Speculation ensued, and worse, anxiety. This is not to scare anyone!! I do. Do this for a long time, will produce a conditioned reflex, time, the other party can not meet, the heart will really seven up and down, not recommended to do so. With the temperament to also do not affect the feelings of husband and wife, feelings are unstable, feelings will only sometimes good and sometimes bad, some year some day, suddenly received the other party called, oh!! I can't have a she or he in my life. This is the result of temperament, of course, it is an exaggeration to say! Having said so much, the specific suggestions are: irregular timing, not fixed, not random, between the two, according to the law of development of things. Husband and wife from the very beginning to know, marriage, children, and then to the later separation, no reason, now is already separated. There is a certain understanding between each other, from the interests and hobbies, life rules, work and rest time and other aspects to find the time to play, : After work, the other party is almost home, this time to play, greetings, what time is the next class today? Because you know she or he doesn't leave on time. If you have more work to do, you'll leave later. If you don't, you'll leave earlier. In short, do not let the other person form a conditioned reflex!
Short messages often use the way of communication for a long time, may wish to change to send short messages to adjust a single way. Keep it fresh!! Use the spare time to send a mood at that time, what you are doing, what new things you see and so on. Another, there are some couples are more subtle, some words in the embarrassed to say, even if it was thought of at that time, embarrassed to say, at this time, you can send each other through the form of SMS, let each other often feel what is the first thought of you!! You're her number one priority.
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Birthday holiday anniversary: Wedding anniversary, this day is not only to play, flowers, or small gifts, or usually she (he) wants to buy Dongdong has not bought, buy and write a few warm words, must be on time to her hand. Surprise her!! Let her feel the warmth of the other half! I feel like you're fighting for her and for this family! Relive the feeling of happy days when I was just married!! Birthday like this!! This is the holiday!! Let her have a warm in the heart on a special day!!
Find a topic separate from each other for a long time, coupled with often play, it is inevitable that there will be no topic to say the scene, then we will find one! About which TV series, it is best to be about the emotional aspects, both husband and wife are interested in. Talk about the characters inside, the story plot, predict the development behind... Talk about your own perception, naturally think of yourself, the feelings of the couple, so that slowly there will be a topic to say. Can not just look at the light to say, to really put in place, absorb the strengths of others, good aspects, avoid bad places, compare yourself, what is the lack to make up for, which is to carry forward and continue to work hard, this young couple's feelings will only get better and better! More and more sunshine!
Often in the body with not afraid of ten thousand afraid of one, in case of a fight, not in the body, the other party does not know what reason, the heart will put this thing, waiting for you back, this is not good!
The special situation is bad, lost, at this time must notify the other party, explain the situation, let the other party know your current situation, to avoid the other party in this period of time to beat you, causing unnecessary trouble and worry.
Share the joy of success performance to a new high, get the reward of the leader, win the ranking in the competition, etc., these make people happy, exciting things, let the other half of her (he) and you share.
All of this is based on trust and communication.
There is a limit to doing nothing: moderation is best!