Children's education is a family event, as a child's parents, how should help children develop good behavior habits? As a treasure mother, I think parents can use the following methods.
Teach by example and word
Normative behavior
Help your child develop a correct awareness. Children's growth, the earliest and most important teacher is the child's parents, parents of the child's education, has a great impact on the child's growth, and even affect the child's life, as a parent to help children develop good behavior habits, first of all, let the child establish a good sense, all say that people's thoughts will affect people's behavior, Parents should help their children to screen and identify what can be done, which are good habits, which are bad habits of thought, so that children can establish a sense of good behavior from a young age.
Regulate children's daily behavior habits. The child's learning ability is very strong, as a parent, to let the child develop good behavior habits, must start from the doll's behavior, from the child's word and deed, start from a small point of view, let the child understand what behavior habits can be carried forward, what behavior habits must be abandoned, when the child has bad habits, must help him correct, Give encouragement and praise when your child does well. Little by little, develop good habits.
Teach children to learn from role models. It is said that the power of example is infinite, to let children develop good habits of behavior, we must give them in life to find some examples to learn from, look at the advantages and practices of example, learn the spiritual style of example, and require children to consciously learn the behavior and style of example, so that children feel full of positive energy, so as to consciously regulate their own behavior.
Teach your child to recognize negative stereotypes. In addition to positive education methods, negative education methods can also be used to let children see negative textbooks. According to their behaviors and consequences, children can personally feel the impact of negative behaviors on themselves. Through negative typical education, children can consciously avoid learning negative typical styles. At the same time, it can also let children learn to distinguish negative things, so as to stay away.
Joint schools teach children together. Children's teachers in addition to parents, is the biggest role of the school teacher, the child into the school, will get the teacher's patience education, the school's education model, as well as the behavior of the students will have a great impact on the child, as the saying goes that the black near the ink, near the red, the child in the school time is longer than at home, as a parent should pay attention to and school teachers to keep close, Use the power of school to help children develop good habits.
Be a good role model for your children. Parents have a very big impact on their children, it is said that dragon born dragon, phoenix born phoenix, mouse born son will play holes, perhaps this is the reason, parents as children's enlightenment teachers, must pay attention to their own behavior habits, do not have bad habits, bad behavior, so as to bring bad teaching materials to children, only their own good clean, strict, in order to give children as a good example, Can subtly influence the child's behavior.
Don't easily use violence to teach children. Now some parents manage the way of children is a dozen two scold, with violent way to educate children, because they think that only let the child afraid, the child will be obedient, but they do not know that the children have a strong rebellious psychology, the more violent you are, he may not really listen to you, only through reasoning education, with him to be reasonable, perhaps the child is more able to accept your views and views, Of course, sometimes it is necessary to beat and scold, but it should not be long-term violence.
Children's education must not be ignored, as parents to give children a good head, teach by example, do not be a bad example to children, help children develop good behavior habits.
The above experience represents the author's personal views, if there is anything wrong, please correct.