According to the luminaries of psychology, the prerequisites for a jealous attitude towards a partner arise in girls at a very young age. Parents should definitely pay attention to their relationships, as they leave a clear imprint on young children’s minds.
Very often, a child hears something that is not at all intended for his mind. If the father or mother cheated in the relationship and this affected the atmosphere in the family, then with a 90% probability, the girl would develop a fear of being a devoted man.
The main problems why girls are jealous include:
Injustice. This feeling is due to the fact that a woman, entering into a relationship with a partner, fully associates herself with him. Simply put, he believes that they now form one whole. If a guy looks to the side, and a woman puts all of herself into their union, then she feels the dishonesty of what is happening.
Girls are very afraid to be betrayed. Treason is often interpreted by them as a special type of betrayal. A world where a couple “together and forever” is destroyed, ideals are betrayed and vows are broken.
Low self-esteem. Probably the most common reason for doubting a partner. When a woman thinks that she is not beautiful, not smart and not desirable, this always creates a lot of problems in the relationship.
She is constantly thinking that in the place of her man she would choose a more interesting and well-groomed partner. At the same time, the man is practically powerless. Compliments and praises are perceived by the girl as a lie and an attempt to “show off”.
Fear of being alone. The less independent a woman is, the more she needs a partner in the person of a man nearby. When there are no own hobbies and aspirations, she will go to extremes and take up her free time with nagging and spying on her own partner.