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Shake Ma Wisdom Development Park and ordinary children's park, parents how to choose?

2018-04-05 17:36:51

The child's development has always been at the heart of parents, and this is especially true for parents in the early stages. Many parents hope that their children can be prepared in all aspects before entering primary school, but how to prepare and what parents should do has become a big problem encountered by parents in the process of raising children. On this issue, many parents think that the children's environment that accompanies their children most is in the park, but the neglected place is in the choice of the park, how to choose the ordinary children's park and the intelligent children's development park?


Step 1: Know what to let your child grow up with When we as parents go to work and entrust our children to grandparents or babysitters: Who else will the child play with and play with? Studies from around the world have found that not only in China, children are spending less and less time playing with peers and parents. So where did the time go? A lot of time is spent on computer, TV and other visual media, and even if the child is not exposed to these content, how can grandparents or babysitters give more supportive help to the child? In fact, a more creative world, which encourages rational knowledge and creative thinking, but ironically, children are receiving more and more dogmatic input, and even though the truth of much of the information has changed over time, children are still less engaged in play, which can rely on exploration to enhance development in various fields. Ordinary children's paradise has a large number of visual media and educational children's paradise relies on educational equipment and aims to develop children's wisdom.


Step 2: The impact of information flow screening on parents' parenting style The advent of the information age has brought about many changes in children's learning style and has also profoundly affected parents' parenting style. On the one hand, the impact of a large amount of information flow provides parents with a lot of valuable information, so that parents can carry out necessary information screening in the information flow. To improve their parenting concept, improve their parenting behavior; On the other hand, the excessive or overload of information also brings many troubles to parents, especially many fields are putting forward some seemingly professional but non-professional education theories and concepts, which brings a lot of harm to children. In the face of the double-sided impact of information, the rapidity and fluidity of knowledge in the information age, and the complex and creative world of the future, you seriously consider the changes of this influence on parenting styles.


Step 3: Recognize the importance of children's learning rules in paradise In the face of children, the first thing parents should do is to follow the rules. This law is the basic law of children's learning and development. How do children learn? Generally speaking, children learn in two ways, one is direct experience and the other is indirect experience. The former can be understood as the experience directly provided by parents to children, children explore quantitative relations through toys, or explore sunlight, air and water through outdoor games, etc. Theoretically speaking, this is the unique characteristics of the sensory-perceptual motor stage mentioned by the famous psychologist Piaget, that is to say, children learn through movement or operation of objects. This is the most direct and effective way for children. Indirect experience, which can also be understood here as representational experience, is inseparable from the development of language and thinking, which is difficult for children to achieve in daily life, but can be developed in play, through the doll's home to feel different occupational characteristics, understand the intentions of others, or through the doll's home to bathe the baby to experience the process of bathing, etc. This is different from direct experience. Direct experience is inseparable from indirect experience. The wisdom development Park learns through children's direct exploration and operation of educational equipment, or feels the improvement of emotional intelligence through the process of situational experience participation.


Step 4: How to look at children's playground games, so that children grow up happy in play, but because parents in the family is difficult to give children full opportunities to explore, but also lack of time and leisure to accompany children, so this brings a blank area to the development of children. So how to let children grow up freely and happily at the same time, but also to obtain self-care, language development, emotional communication and other aspects of the ability to improve? This is the game. Games are an indispensable element in children's lives. Through games, children can learn many basic abilities, learn how to express, learn how to communicate with others, learn how to better improve their ability to take care of themselves and so on. On the surface, the game seems to be no benefit, in fact, the game is a kind of preparation, in the process of playing, to learn a lot of things that others can not teach. Generally, parents will think that games are not equal to learning, but ignore the important value of games as a learning medium for children. After you recognize the edutainment, you also have a new judgment on children's parks. Do parents choose ordinary children's parks that only have entertainment or intelligent development parks that really do education and culture?


Conclusion: How to choose between ordinary children's paradise and educational children's paradise depends on what they want to accompany children to grow up, and whether they can really let children learn to improve their self-quality while enjoying their childhood.

Matters needing attention

Children's paradise is different from adult paradise, and its focus should be on the direction of children's learning and growth.